Christian McNeill | transformational coach
Whenever we are upset with a family member, boss or anyone else, the false belief that ‘they made me feel like this,’ is present.And the moment any of us can remember the question, ‘Where do I think my feelings are coming from in this moment?’ we are reawakening to the true answer: from within. …
One immense benefit of understanding the Inside-out paradigm is this: we know that an event or circumstance can never create upset or painful feelings. Distress can only come from our moment to moment thinking, which may include thinking about those events. No matter how big a circumstance is, it has no inherent power to dictate how any human being will feel. …
How realistic is it to expect a life free of problems, or obstacles? And how much better does it feel to realise that these ‘obstacles’ are part of the adventure? …
How a student was clearly able to see that he had the ability to write the dissertation; that it could actually be fairly effortless; and that it was his own invisible thinking which was interfering in that process. …
It is no longer necessary to change the world in order to change your feelings. Because your feelings are coming from transient thought. And as the stream of thought that runs through each of us is constantly changing of its own accord, you don’t need to try to control that either.
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Like an iceberg, only 10-15% of our thinking is visible. What an insight can do is to allow these thoughts to dissolve. Once a client has had one deep insight into the nature of Thought as the creator of experience, others will follow. …
Today I see that label as a description of what happens when I get caught up in my head. Clutter, busy-ness, and speediness are still where low quality of mind takes me. It’s just increasingly less so. The 3 Principles Paradigm has been my solution. …
Anyone who has had insight about the truth of how the 3 Principles create our experience of life will evolve. Built into this logic is a funnel that leads us in an inevitable, evolutionary direction. …
Subtracting Overwhelm from Your Experience The first thing that struck
I searched, with a genuinely open mind for what was true spiritually for me. [There is nothing quite like the ‘gift of despair’ to spur this kind of enquiry.] …